Why Conforming is the #1 Enemy of Being Exceptional

Let's talk about the cold, hard truth of being exceptional.

You want to be in the top 10% of your field—whether you're a competitive dancer, a high performer in your career, or a dedicated coach. You want to stand out. You want to be a cut above.

But to get there, you can't take your cues from the 90% of people who are comfortable with the status quo.

This is a counter-intuitive battle, because your brain is literally wired to do the opposite. It wants you to imitate. To blend in. To follow the crowd. It’s a powerful, innate wiring that whispers to you, telling you to do what’s easy and what everyone else is doing.

The further you want to climb, the more resistance you’ll feel from that innate wiring.

And often, the greatest resistance doesn’t just come from within. It comes from the very people around you who are comfortable in the 90%. They'll question your ambition, they'll doubt your methods, and they'll try to pull you back into the comfort zone.

This is precisely why your success isn't just about hard work. It's about a strategic choice.

The Top 10% Tribe

The further you want to climb, the more carefully you need to construct your inner circle. Your "tribe" is the single most important aspect of your success.

So, let me ask you:

• Who are you surrounding yourself with?

• Whose norms and habits are you unconsciously adopting?

• Are you getting advice from the 90% or the 10%?

If you're serious about making that leap, it's time to get strategic about the people in your life. It's time to build a tribe that lifts you up, challenges your comfort, and understands the sacrifices required to be exceptional.

Who's in your top 10% tribe?